Today I spent 14 hours in a hospital waiting room. My sister had a scheduled procedure and all went very well. At the end of the day she was in a room and talking with me about how much she felt like MOM. I reassured her she has a way to go.
My sister spent the night with me. She brought a box of 'stuff' that had been in her attic from Grandma Henson (our maternal grandmother). We went through the box, finding everything from boxes of greeting cards, items our children had sent to grandma, pictures, recipes, and canceled
checks from 1920's and 1930's. Grandma signed them, "Fay Henson by wife" in the 20's. By the 30's she was signing, "Fay Henson by
Burnetta".
We were out of bed at 4 AM and at the hospital by 5:30. When you are an early bird you get the best parking places. There were three just outside the entrance and I got one!! She was taken back to
pre-op about 6:15 am. I went back to sit with her about 6:45. She headed to the OR around 7:45. The procedure was to take from 4 to 5 hours. It
actually took around 9. I returned to the waiting room.
Needless to say, I was sleepy. I worried a bit about how I could doze in those waiting room chairs, then found five recliners in the back part of the waiting room. At that time only one was occupied. I staked my claim and settled in. A little later a man and wife
cabbaged on to two more. He immediately kicked back and started snoring. I was reading and dozing in mine.
The hospital has a nurse who rounds the waiting room every hour or so to provide updates about what is going on in surgery. The first time she came around she asked the sleeping man if he would like a warm blanket, and brought him one. I was cold, which is quite unusual for me. I had a t-shirt on with jeans and was cold
enough to be uncomfortable. I had donned my sisters long sleeved blouse over my t-shirt, which was helpful, but I was still COLD. I wanted a blanket, but she had already passed me by. I read and dozed and then she came back with more news. I asked for a warm blanket like that man over there had. It was the BEST. I slept off and on until Todd and Bob arrived around 11.
About the 'family reunion'. I was in the farthest back section of the waiting room and as the one lady and the couple left, a group people kept filtering into the area. They would all greet the new comers and settle in all around me. As the crowd grew in numbers, the volume grew. I kept thinking their 'person' would be finished and they would leave, but more people kept coming. Once Todd and Bob arrived, I got up and moved to a section of chairs where I crocheted and visited with them. The other group continued to grow and the volume increased. Then I noticed they had set up a table with food. As people came, they brought a dish. It was at that point I started identifying them as the 'family reunion' people. Whatever their family member was having done was nearly as lengthy as ours. They talked to the the surgeon and filtered out only minutes before we did.